Tomeka Thiam cites irreconcilable differences and seeks custody of their 17-year-old child in divorce filing.

Akon’s longtime marriage is coming to an end. Just days before what would have been their 28th wedding anniversary, Tomeka Thiam, the singer’s wife, has filed for divorce.
Court documents obtained by TMZ Hip Hop reveal that Tomeka and Akon tied the knot on September 15, 1996. In the filing, she cites irreconcilable differences as the reason for ending their decades-long marriage.
The timing has made the news all the more poignant, with the couple’s milestone anniversary just around the corner.
While Akon has been famously private about his personal life — especially the number of wives he’s had over the years — this filing offers some insight into their family. The couple shares a 17-year-old child, and Tomeka is requesting joint legal custody while seeking physical custody for herself.
She is also asking for spousal support and has requested that the court block Akon from receiving any support from her.

Akon has not publicly responded to the filing, and representatives for the singer have not commented. The news marks a significant moment in the personal life of the Grammy-nominated artist, who is better known for hits like “Smack That” and “Lonely” than for his long-term relationships.
Fans of Akon may remember that he has often been cryptic about his personal life, especially regarding his marital history. Tomeka’s filing puts a rare spotlight on the singer’s private affairs and the family he built with her.
With nearly three decades together, the divorce is likely to be an emotional and complicated process, particularly with their teenage child involved.
As the couple approaches what would have been a nearly three-decade milestone, this split underscores that even long-lasting relationships can face challenges.
Fans and followers will be watching closely as this story develops and waiting to see if Akon addresses the filing publicly.